My Story

We were married in the Philippines back in 1989 and I will never forget the wedding...it was so long and we had to kneel for what seemed like hours listening to a service that today I cannot even remember one word of. So was it worth it and I would I do it again? I would not hesitate as finding my Filipina Asawa has been the best thing that has ever happened to me.

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Finding Your Filipina

Finding your Filipina is easy. In fact for every man over 55 wanting to marry a Filipina there would have to be 100 young ladies from 18 to 25 very keen to be his ‘asawa’, or spouse. Of those 100, it would be safe to hazard the guess that at least 25 of them would be former bargirls and prostitutes, five or more might not even be female and of the rest, at least half would be either married, a single parent or already in one or more relationships. That still leaves 40% of warm, loving and devoted young ladies looking for YOU.

Even if you are overweight, old and bald it makes little difference to these women. Of course many of them are looking for an escape from grinding poverty and a dismal future, but so are young women in the former Soviet Union and Eastern Europe as well as South and Central America, Africa and elsewhere in Asia.

If you think you will be a Knight in Shining Armor and ’save’ a damsel from distress, never forget this is for life. You are playing with human feelings and people’s lives. There is no such thing as a ‘mail order bride’ and the term is insulting to both the lady and her future husband. People are not items you can have sent to you via FedEx. In fact there are now laws in place in the Philippines and the USA (IMBRA) to protect Filipinas from exploitation when they meet their prospective spouse via online penpal clubs and introduction agencies.

The right partner to be a loving companion throughout your retirement is a vital factor in enjoying that retirement. You have the rest of your life so don’t rush things. There will be dozens of pages and links running off this one. In time they will build up to become a major resource for anyone contemplating a new life with a new wife, perhaps even in a new location.

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Getting Married to a Filipina

Philippine Books
Filipina 101

This valuable resource will help you navigate the shoals and reefs of online dating and finding a Filipina of your very own. Comprehensive and informative it is a very easy to read book. Filipina 101 – Finding your dream girls

Filipina 202

Filipina 202 tells you everything you need to marry your Filipina, either in the Philippines or back home. It also includes valuable advice if you should go for a marriage or fiancé visa when migrating her to where you live.

Filipina 303

Filipina 303 – Making The Magic Last is all about what to do once the novelty wears off and the hum drum of everyday life grinds on This book will help you keep the magic in your marriage to a Filipina.

Philippine Dreames

If you are dreaming about escaping the rat race, then read the experiences of Perry Gamsby who did just that and ‘escape to the Philippines. Amusing and informative, this is an excellent resource.

Making A Living In The Philippines

Getting a job in the Philippines for a foreigner is not easy, but it can be done. I did it several times. I also owned businesses and made investments. You can earn a living in the Philippines by working or starting a business.

Philippines Property Primer

Philippines Property Primer is the first resource many expats turn to when thinking about buying, selling, renting or developing real property in the Philippines.

Philippines Survival Handbook

This is more than just your average travel guide, this is personal risk management for the Philippines so you can enjoy your vacation to the Philippines without the hassles

Filina Dreams

The compilation of three priceless volumes on the topic of cross cultural marriage to a Filipina. From finding her to marrying her to migrating her to your country and then making it all work.